The Paralysis of Fear
Gettysburg Presbyterian Church
David C. Wright
Num. 13:1-3, 17-33; 14:1-4; Psalm 27
May 2, 2010
In the
movie, “Akeelah and the Bee,” 11 year-old Akeelah
Anderson, an African-American girl from South Los Angeles, whose
father is dead, and whose brother is running with gangs, is doing
poorly in school. Her principal challenges her to enter the
school spelling bee as an alternative to detention. She reluctantly
accepts, and surprisingly wins! She then decides to compete
in the regional spelling bee. But her mother had been opposed
to the idea. In one scene, she explains why.
She says, “I want
to tell you something. Do you know why I didn’t
want you to do the Bee?”
“No,” replies
Akeelah.
“Cuz I
saw that video of your’s and I saw there was
one winner and 200 losers, and I didn’t want you to be one
of those losers.” Then she adds,
“Did
you know your momma went to college right after HS?”
“No,” responds
Akeelah.
“I had
a scholarship. I was going to be a doctor.”
“What
happened?” asks Akeelah.
“I just
felt so out of place in that school. I
just thought that I was going to fail. So before that happened
I dropped out. I don’t want to you do that same thing
with this Bee.”
How sad
for that mother. Her fear caused
her to miss out on an amazing opportunity, and now fear almost
caused her to oppose a wonderful opportunity for her daughter. I
wonder what affects fear is having on your life right now. I
think fear plays a far greater role in our lives than most of us
are aware.
One way
to look at this morning’s Scripture lesson is to
see how fear operates throughout the story. The story takes
place way back in Israel’s history, just a couple months
after God miraculously delivered the Hebrews from slavery in Egypt. They’ve
just spent a little time wandering around the wilderness where
God has provided them with food, water, and protection from their
enemies. Now they stand on the brink of entering the long-promised
land of Canaan. We begin in Numbers 13:1
The Lord said to
Moses, 2‘Send men to spy out the land
of Canaan, which I am giving to the Israelites; from each of their ancestral
tribes you shall send a man, every one a leader among them.’ 3So
Moses sent them from the wilderness of Paran, according to the command of the
Lord, all of them leading men among the Israelites.
17 Moses
sent them to spy out the land of Canaan, and said to them, ‘Go up there
into the Negeb, and go up into the hill country, 18and
see what the land is like, and whether the people who live in it are strong
or weak, whether they are few or many, 19and whether the land
they live in is good or bad, and whether the towns that they live in are unwalled
or fortified, 20and whether the land is rich or poor, and whether
there are trees in it or not. Be bold, and bring some of the fruit of the land.’ Now
it was the season of the first ripe grapes.
21 So
they went up and spied out the land…25 At
the end of forty days they returned from spying out the land. 26And they came
to Moses and Aaron and to all the congregation of the Israelites in the wilderness
of Paran, at Kadesh; they brought back word to them and to all the congregation,
and showed them the fruit of the land. 27And they told him, ‘We came
to the land to which you sent us; it flows with milk and honey, and this is
its fruit. 28Yet the people who live in the land are strong, and the towns
are fortified and very large; and besides, we saw the descendants of Anak there.
29The Amalekites live in the land of the Negeb; the Hittites, the Jebusites,
and the Amorites live in the hill country; and the Canaanites live by the sea,
and along the Jordan.’
30 But
Caleb quieted the people before Moses, and said, ‘Let
us go up at once and occupy it, for we are well able to overcome it.’ 31Then
the men who had gone up with him said, ‘We are not able to go up against
this people, for they are stronger than we are.’ 32So they
brought to the Israelites an unfavourable report of the land that they had
spied out, saying, ‘The land that we have gone through as spies is a
land that devours its inhabitants; and all the people that we saw in it are
of great size. 33There we saw the Nephilim (the Anakites come
from the Nephilim); and to ourselves we seemed like grasshoppers, and so we
seemed to them.’
14 Then all
the congregation raised a loud cry, and the people wept that night. 2And
all the Israelites complained against Moses and Aaron; the whole congregation
said to them, ‘Would that we had died in the land of Egypt!
Or would that we had died in this wilderness! 3Why
is the Lord bringing us into this land to fall by the sword?
Our wives and our little ones will become plunder; would it not
be better for us to go back to Egypt?’ 4So
they said to one another, ‘Let us choose a leader, and
go back to Egypt.’
(Num.
13:1-3, 17-21a, 25-33; 14:1-4)
Wow! One
day they are on the cusp of finally entering the land of Canaan,
which God had promised to give them, and a few days later they
are ready to pack it all in and head back to slavery in Egypt! Let’s
look at how fear operated to bring this about and how it operates
to keep us from receiving
God’s blessings, too! Let’s begin by looking
at some of the effects of fear.
Twelve leaders are sent
to Canaan to do a little recon. The assumption is that Israel is going
to take this land, because verse one says that God is giving it to them. This
mission is just to figure out the best way to do it.
They go and do what
they were instructed to do, traversing the land from South to North and East
to West. It was the middle of the summer, and they brought back samples
of the wonderful produce of the land. However, it’s interesting
that they never refer to Canaan as “the promised land,” which is
what it is usually called. Instead it becomes “the land to which
you (meaning Moses) sent us.” In verse 27, the spies report on
the good things they found- a fertile and productive land. However, verse
28 begins a much longer negative report- that people who live in the land are
strong, the towns are large and fortified, and the descendants of Anak (renowned
for their great size) live there. They also list all the other peoples
who have settled there. Apparently, this negative report stirred up
the people, because we’re told that Caleb had to quiet them down.
Caleb, one of the 12
spies, saw everything the others had seen, and yet his assessment is much more
positive. He argues that the Israelites are “well able” to
overcome and take the land. Then things begin to get weird, as fear
takes over. Ten of the spies begin to distort what they actually saw
to support their position that they should not attempt to enter the land. They
say that the people of the new land are stronger than the Israelites. They
say that the land itself is bad- that it devours its inhabitants- probably
meaning it is extremely inhospitable. Further, they report seeing the
Nephilim, a legendary race of god-like people, compared to which they felt
like mere grasshoppers!
Notice the effect of
fear: It actually shaped their perceptions of reality. They became
unable to see things as they really were. We know from later history
that the Hebrews were indeed well able to conquer this land. But those
who were afraid were unable to objectively see the facts. Fear distorted
their perception of reality.
Eighty years ago, the
University of Notre Dame football team, under the leadership of legendary coach
Knute Rockne, was preparing to play the USC Trojans. Knowing that the
Trojans had a far better team, Rockne devised a plan to intimidate them. He
recruited the largest men he could find in South Bend- each at least 6'5" and
300 pounds- fitted them with Notre Dame uniforms and had them march in ahead
of the real players! (This took place before college rosters were limited
in number.) When the USC players saw these giants march in, they forgot
about their talent and undefeated record and mentally prepared themselves to
lose. And they did! Even though none of the new “recruits” actually
played, the intimidated Trojan players lost the game! Fear had shaped
their perception of the USC team.
Fear may be shaping
your perception of reality as you face the challenges of life. Perhaps
you are worried about retirement, a job change, a new boss, or a serious illness. It
is human nature to inflate an actual threat to us, a propensity which psychologist
Albert Ellis labeled “awfulizing.” We take a modest threat
or challenge and become fixated on how “awful” the outcome might
be! Fear distorts our ability to accurately perceive the threat to us. And
that makes it almost impossible for us to determine a wise course of action.
Secondly, fear can paralyze
us into inaction. In today’s Scripture, the nation was poised to
enter the land God promised them but suddenly they became frozen by fear. A
number of years ago I took a group caving. In one part of Sinnit cave,
it is necessary to straddle a series of 20-30' deep crevices in order to get
to the rest of the cave. One woman, Lisa, became terrified by this. Understand
that there was nothing physically difficult about straddling the crevices-
they were only a couple of feet wide, and Lisa was one of the tallest people
in the group! But Lisa’s fear paralyzed her, so I had to work with
her literally each step of the way, instructing her exactly where to place
each hand and each foot until we got through the challenge. In the same
way fear can paralyze us from taking necessary actions to get what we want
or need.
Third, fear can become
contagious. Remember what happened at the end of our Scripture lesson. The
people cried and wept. And in their hysterical state they even idealized
their lives in Egypt. “Oh, let’s go be slaves again!” the
cried. The fear of the 10 spies spread throughout the entire camp leading
to a total loss of perspective and a plan which made no sense.
Rabbi Edwin Friedman has written extensively on the dynamics of
congregational life. He contends that fear or anxiety is
a major problem for all kinds of churches, paralyzing them from
taking action and warping their perspectives just like it does
in individuals. He says that one of the most important tasks
of leadership in any group is managing fear and anxiety. I
think he is exactly right in his analysis. As we see from
the example of Israel, fear often becomes contagious and warps
the judgment of congregations, keeping us from doing what God is
calling us to do. So, be on the lookout for fear as we move
forward into God’s future for us at GPC, whatever that may
be!
And that leads us to
look at the spiritual dimensions of fear, for fear is not just a psychological
problem; it is also a spiritual problem. God had promised the Hebrew
people this land. They failed to trust God because of their fear. And
their fear caused them to lose out on the blessings that God had promised to
them. It caused them to settle for less than God’s best for them. Writer
Max Lucado puts it this way, “Fear doesn’t want you to make the
journey to the mountain. If it can rattle you enough, fear will persuade
you to take your eyes off the peaks and settle for a dull existence in the
flatlands.”
What blessings are you
missing out on because of fear? Maybe you miss out on a promising relationship,
because you are afraid to ask someone out! Maybe you miss out on a promising
career, because you are afraid to try college or to seek a promotion where
you work. Maybe you miss out on the satisfaction of leadership, because
you fear taking on those responsibilities. Fear causes us to lose out
on God’s best for us.
Fear can also lead us
to disobey God. It caused the Israelites to doubt God’s promises
and disobey God’s instructions to them to enter the land. Even
though they had recently experienced the miraculous intervention of God during
their deliverance from Egypt, the most advanced and powerful civilization in
the world, and even though God had sustained them on their journey through
the wilderness, fear caused them to forget all of that. Fear resulted
in their disobedience to the Lord.
Fear can also cause us to
disobey God. Sometimes young people, afraid of being rejected by their
friends, become involved in cheating or using alcohol and drugs against their
better judgment. Adults, afraid of offending their colleagues, become
engaged in unethical behavior at work or refuse to stand up for what is right. If
we don’t deal with fear, it can cause us to disobey God and become estranged
from him.
This story from Numbers
reminds us that fear can warp our perceptions, paralyze us from acting, and
become contagious in groups. Spiritually, fear can steal our blessings
and lead us to depart from God’s will for us. It is a powerful
force in all our lives.
So what do we do about
fear? We can begin by admitting when part of our problem in a given situation
is that we are afraid. Then we can admit that we may not be seeing things
clearly, just like the ten spies couldn’t clearly perceive what they
were seeing in Canaan. If you’re dealing with fear, you may wish
to seek the assistance of a friend or counselor to help you more accurately
assess your situation. Then you’ll better know what you’re
really up against, and can make wiser choices for your future.
Then take time to remember
God’s promises. Psalm 27 would be a good place to start, “The
Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the
stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?” (Ps. 27:1) Take
time to remember how God has intervened in biblical times as well as in your
own life in the past. Allow God to quiet your spirit. Pray. Then
take courage and do what you believe to be right or best.
I
close with a quote from Harry Emerson Fosdick, “Fear imprisons,
faith liberates; fear paralyzes, faith empowers; fear disheartens,
faith encourages; fear sickens, faith heals; fear makes useless,
faith makes serviceable; and most of all, fear puts hopelessness
at the heart of life, while faith rejoices in its God.”
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