The Price Tag of Popularity
Luke 4:16-30
Gettysburg Presbyterian Church
Rev. Daniel T. Hans
September 23, 2007
Jesus never took Dale Carnegie's public speaking course: "How
to Win Friends and Influence People." That's obvious
from our passage this morning. His first public speaking venture
was nearly his last! His hometown sermon was so disastrous
he barely got out of town alive. What happened? One minute
he had them eating out of his hand, the next they had their hands
around his throat! What went wrong?
The Bible passage Jesus read was a favorite of that day. The
words from the prophet Isaiah carried a promise of hope for the
hopeless and freedom for the trapped. Those words were commonly
associated with the coming of God's Messiah, God's chosen Savior. It
was a popular reading, but what Jesus added was brash & brazen. He
claimed to be the fulfillment of that promise! He connected
his ministry to the Messiah's coming! The people back then believed
God's Messiah would come, but not in the form of the kid
next door, not as Joseph's boy. Think about your own feelings
if some kid on your street said to you: "Some day I'm going
to be your minister."
As a kid, my neighbors would have shuddered at such a prospect!
While the connection of Jesus’ own ministry to the Messiah's coming raised a few eyebrows, his follow-up comments drove the nails into his coffin. His hometown heard of the healings he performed in other towns. They were perturbed that he did no such wonders in their town. Why hadn't he shown them any special favor. This hometown crowd was like: those who claim "Charity begins and belongs at home" or those who have an "America first-America only" platform or those who get angry at their Congressman for voting for a bill that helps the nation as a whole but doesn’t help their home district.
Jesus implied that his ministry as the Messiah was not specifically for his hometown and not exclusively for the people of Israel. He told two stories out of Israel's history that showed how God's favor went out to everyone, even non-Jews. During a 3 ½ year drought and famine, the prophet Elijah was sent by God to assist not Jewish widows but only a foreign widow! Likewise, God used the prophet Elisha to heal not the lepers in Israel but a leper in Syria who was a commander of the Syrian army, Israel's enemy!
These examples show Jesus' understanding of Isaiah’s words. God's
love goes out to all people, especially those in the margins of
life, those easily and readily written off as lost causes. Luke’s
Gospel expresses better than the other three gospels Jesus’ concern
for the “other”, for the outsider, and for the outcast. The “it’s
all about us and it’s only about us” crowd became irate
when Jesus suggested that God includes others not like “us”. Not
liking the message, the crowd wanted to kill the messenger.
In 1816, a young, New England lawyer moved to Adams County and
opened a law office where the Gettysburg Hotel now stands. Upon
his arrival, he witnessed fugitive slaves escaping from bondage
in the South. He devoted his legal skills and energies to
help free slaves. Later, Thaddeus Stevens became a powerful,
anti-slavery influence in the US Congress. As a side
bar, Thaddeus Stevens rented a pew here in our church. He
wasn't a member and there's no evidence of regular attendance,
but he did support this church by renting a pew. (Some people still
do that today!) At his death, he was virtually alone. Before
being buried in an obscure cemetery in Lancaster, PA, he stated
his reason for selecting that cemetery: I repose in this
quiet and secluded spot, not from any natural preference for solitude,
but, finding other cemeteries limited as to race by Charter Rules,
I have chosen this that I might illustrate in my death the Principles
which I advocated through a long life: Equality of man before his
Creator.
Thaddeus Stevens knew the price tag of being unpopular.
Luke's account of Jesus' hometown sermon follows on the heels of his temptations in the wilderness. The devil tried to seduce Jesus with instant success, with human power, and with victory free from suffering. After these temptations, Jesus returned home to face the greatest seduction of all - popularity! There's nothing wrong with being popular per se; there's nothing wrong with high approval ratings; there's nothing wrong with being liked by the crowd - provided qualities more important and enduring than popularity are not sacrificed in the process.
One of the costly price tags of popularity is the loss of integrity. Seeking approval can undermine a commitment to what is right. As Christians, we do things based not on public opinion, rather based on what we understand to be God's will for us. As people of God, we do something not because it is the popular thing to do but because it is the right thing to do.
A political leader's greatest obstacle to doing what is right
may be opinion polls. Because of public opinion polls, leaders
make hasty, appealing decisions that may not be in the nation's
best interest long term. We need national leadership that is willing
to commit political suicide for the sake of the nation's and world's
future well being. We need leaders as defined in the following
anonymous reflection:
The world needs more people who do not have a price at which they
can be bought; who do not borrow from integrity to pay for expediency …who
are not afraid to risk; who are honest in small matters as they
are in large ones; whose ambitions are big enough to include others;
who know how to win with grace and lose with dignity…who
are not afraid to go against the grain of public opinion … who
are occasionally wrong and always willing to admit it. (The
Measure of Our Success, Marian Wright Edelman, p. 68)
Selling one’s soul for votes, sacrifices integrity for popularity.
Preachers fall into the same trap. The desire to be liked by the congregation can have a neutralizing effect on their ministry, causing them to avoid some of the Bible's most demanding and important passages. I have to admit there are Bible passages I read and then conclude: I can’t preach that! It's too demanding, too challenging, too truthful. If I preached that stuff I might threaten the good thing I have going here! Again integrity takes a back seat to popularity.
The same holds for the family. Parents want to be popular with
their kids. They want to be liked. However, as with being
a prophet or a leader or a Christian, being a parent is not about
popularity. If parents place being liked above being truthful,
above teaching their kids what is right, above fighting with their
kids to establish good values, then parents will pay a costly price
for being popular. The price tag is their children's future social
and moral well-being. In his book, No: Why Kids - of All Ages
- Need to Hear It and Ways Parents Can Say It, David Walsh
asks: Do your kids suffer from discipline deficit disorder? Hint:
Symptoms include “the gimmes” and a “me first” attitude.
For parents, saying “No” is not popular but it is
necessary. Parents need to ask themselves- Am I doing what
is popular with my kids or am I doing what is right for my kids? In
standing for what is right, parents will find their kids pushing
them to the edge with statements like: "I hate you" or "I
wish I lived in a different family" or "I can't wait
to move out of here." If parents give in to such threats
from a desire to be liked, integrity is once again sacrificed to
popularity.
Jesus cannot be accused of taking the popular path. He sacrificed
personal well-being and peace of mind to his calling to speak for
God and he did not lose his integrity before God.
Popularity has enticed many a person to abandon a true life calling. The god of popularity causes us to forget who we truly are. We get so caught up in doing things to please others and to gain their liking that before long we wonder: "Who am I? This isn't me! This isn't what I want to be or do! What have I become?" Going along with the crowd and doing things just because everybody else is doing them can cost us our identity. It was said of British philosopher and ambassador, Isaiah Berlin: He became a master at fitting in at the price of lingering self-dislike. (Isaiah Berlin: A Life , Michael Ignatieff.)
A much earlier English philosopher and church leader was Thomas More whose story is told in the film A Man for All Seasons. Cardinal Woolsey comes to visit More, who has stood up to King Henry VIII and is now in prison. The Cardinal says, “You’re a terrible regret to me, Thomas. If you could see facts flat on, without that terrible moral squint of yours… you could have been a statesman.” More replies, “Can I help my king by giving him lies when he asks for truth?” Later, when More’s daughter comes to visit and asks her father to compromise his stand for truth and justice to save his life, More says, “When a man makes a promise, he puts himself in his own hands, like water. And if he opens his fingers to let it out, he will not be able to find himself again.”
We must ask ourselves: Did God create me to be like everybody else or did God create me to be me? Being ourselves means listening to God's leading for us more than looking for the crowd’s liking of us. Being ourselves means standing alone at times (maybe even being buried alone), knowing who we are and liking who we are even as we stand alone.
One day at lunchtime at a high school, a group of students formed
a circle around an unpopular girl. They were making fun of
her, picking on her, trying to make her cry. Each time someone
fired a cutting comment at her, the rest of the crowd laughed. A
cheerleader, one of the most popular girls in the school, walked
by and stopped to see what was going on. Some of the kids
in the circle urged this cheerleader to join in the fun. The
girl in the center of this gauntlet belonged to the same church
youth group as the cheer-leader. In fact, the two girls had
just been on a retreat together and had talked late one night about
their personal thoughts and struggles with their faith. As
the cheerleader scanned the circle of kids, she saw some of her
friends, some of the coolest kids in the school. She looked
again at the girl in the middle and saw her pain. “What
should I do?” Before she could answer that question,
she had to answer another question- “Who am I? Am
I just one of the crowd? Am I someone who goes along just
to get along?
Am I interested only in being popular? OR am I this girl's
friend, maybe her only friend?”
Reminding herself: who she was answered the question: what should
she do. She stepped into the circle, put her arm around her
friend and said, "She's my friend. If you're going to
make fun of her then you have to make fun of me." Well, that
killed it! The fun ended. The crowd disappeared. But
it cost that cheerleader her standing in the popularity-ranking
in that school. She may have lost some friends but she found
herself. Only she can say if it was worth it. Popularity can cost
us our integrity and our identity, if we let it.
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